Significant other or spouse hates you playing golf. From a female golfers perspective!⛳

As a female golfer, I understand the common complaints and objections that many golfers face from their partners regarding playing the game. For around 10-12 years , I had encountered the persistent belief that I should not be golfing. Despite golf being my passion and an escape for me, I faced scrutiny for spending too long on the course, even when I would finish in less time than expected. I have been playing competitively since 5th grade and continued through college, only to have to give up the sport for about 10 years due to the lack of support and understanding.

However, after moving on from that relationship and meeting someone new, I have managed to reignite my love for the game, and now we both enjoy playing for fun. Whether it's me or my partner playing more frequently has become hard to determine. If someone is insecure or lacks their own hobbies, it's ultimately their issue. I firmly believe in playing the game to the fullest and living life unapologetically. If someone is unwilling to learn or join in, it is not their place to dictate your choices.

My advice to those facing similar challenges is to encourage their partner to take lessons and learn at their own pace. Starting with the basics on the range or a simulator can help build their interest and confidence. If there is no enthusiasm for learning and they are uninterested in joining you, then perhaps spending time apart while they pursue their interests is the best option. Golf is an individual game focused on personal improvement, and the satisfaction from overcoming both the good and bad shots is what makes the game so rewarding. Golf has the power to uplift the soul, and it's important to be supportive and encourage your partner to enjoy the game.

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